Private studio instruction

Learn to hold
what matters most.

One-on-one infant massage education for parents and caregivers — taught gently, at your baby's pace, in my private studio or from the comfort of your own home via Zoom.

Trusted by families across the Bay Area
Instructor gently massaging a smiling baby's tummy on a soft towel, with a plant and candle nearby
Why touch

Small hands learn a lot from being held well.

Infant massage is one of the oldest forms of parent-baby communication. Taught with care, it becomes a daily ritual that benefits you both.

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Bonding

Skin-to-skin routines build trust and a shared language before words arrive.

Calmer sleep

A consistent wind-down touch pattern soothes babies and promotes deep sleep.

Digestive comfort

Gentle tummy strokes aid digestion and help relieve colic, wind and constipation.

Immune & breathing support

Regular massage can help strengthen baby's immune system and ease breathing, including nasal congestion.

Softer skin

Baby-safe oils paired with consistent touch can visibly improve skin texture over time.

Parent confidence

You'll leave every lesson with strokes you understand and can trust yourself to do.

How it works

Every session is relaxed, personal and led by your baby — giving you the skills and confidence to make nurturing touch part of everyday life.

01

We begin with your baby.

There's no rush and no rigid schedule. We take time to settle in, talk about your baby's needs and make sure they are comfortable, calm and ready before we begin.

02 Connect & Prepare

We learn to read baby's cues.

Before massage begins, I'll show you how to recognize your baby's signals and how to ask permission through touch. We'll prepare together, warm the hands and create a calm environment for massage.

03 Learn the Touch

Simple techniques, taught one-to-one.

I demonstrate each technique while you massage your own baby, with the correct pressure, guiding you through gentle strokes for the legs, tummy, chest, arms, face and back. We move entirely at your baby's pace and focus on what is most useful for you.

04 Take It Home

Confidence that continues beyond our session.

We practice together until you feel comfortable with the techniques you've learned. You'll leave with simple guidance to continue at home, helping massage become a familiar ritual of connection between you and your baby.

Why private

One family, one hour, undivided attention.

Most infant massage classes are taught in groups, on a fixed weekly schedule, moving at the pace of the slowest or fussiest baby in the room. First Bond only ever teaches one family at a time.

Better engagement

No competing for attention with other babies — every minute of the hour is about your baby and what they need that day.

Faster learning

One-to-one coaching means fewer strokes to remember at once and immediate feedback, so technique clicks sooner.

Your baby's pace, specifically

We slow down, speed up, or pause entirely based on your baby in the room — never a set curriculum your baby has to keep up with.

Deeper bonding

A private, judgment-free setting makes space for real questions about your baby — which tends to build confidence and connection faster.

Session format

Private studio or virtual sessions.

Every First Bond session is one-to-one — never a group class. You're welcome to join me in my private Bay Area studio, or learn from the comfort of your own home through a private Zoom session — both are available, whichever suits you and your baby best. Virtual sessions follow the same gentle, baby-led approach, with live demonstration and individual guidance throughout.

In-person: private Bay Area studio
Virtual: private Zoom session
Lorraine McCarthy, Certified Infant Massage Instructor
About your instructor

Hi, I'm Lorraine McCarthy.

Internationally Trained. Personally Taught.

I am a Certified Infant Massage Instructor (CIMI), trained through the International Association of Infant Massage (IAIM), an internationally recognized organization dedicated to promoting nurturing touch and communication between parents, caregivers and their babies.

I have been teaching infant massage for more than 24 years, bringing together my IAIM training, over 30 years of experience in massage and wellness, and my own experience as a mother.

At First Bond, every session is private and personal. My role is not to massage your baby for you, but to teach and guide you as you learn to massage your own baby — building confidence, connection and a beautiful skill you can continue at home.

Certified Infant Massage Instructor (CIMI) · International Association of Infant Massage
30+ years in health & wellness
Advanced training in complementary wellness
Sessions

Choose the pace that suits your family.

Every option is taught privately, one family at a time — never in a group — in studio or via Zoom.

Single lesson

Private Session

$225 / 60 minutes
  • One private, personalized lesson
  • In studio or via Zoom
  • Best for babies 6+ weeks
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"I was terrified of doing something wrong with my newborn. Four lessons in, tummy massage is our favorite part of the evening — for both of us."
— A parent in the East Bay

Ready to learn together?

Sessions are limited to a few families a week — reach out to check upcoming availability.